SEX: THE NEXT LEVEL (1 part) - Kyrill Skryll
Hi all, today I want to share with you the article about sex from one Russian man who is doing tantric groups in Russia.
His name is Kyrill Skryll (Кирилл Скрыль). He posted this material yesterday.
Now I know how to describe what I’m looking for: I want to communicate on all my levels. So that is the difficulty in finding a partner for me - a few man as sensitive as me, and as spiritual as me.
But at least, now I know how to formulate what I want in partnership.
Here some my translations for us:
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Sex misinterpretations arise as the topic is very acute, painful and complicated. Almost like the topic of money. Only more complicated.
And it’s going to be difficult to write about.
Here are the main points:
1️⃣ If you don’t get extra pleasure from sex, then its purpose for you is not about pleasure.
2️⃣ The vast majority of people have never really had sex and call that word masturbation about other people.
3️⃣ Delicious sex is not only about emotional intimacy, but also about spiritual experience, the richness of inner territory and the result of deep personal development.
4️⃣ The corollary: truly fulfilling sex is about interaction on multiple levels, not just physical and emotional. And it can be learned.
If you don’t get cosmic extra pleasure from sex, then its purpose for you isn’t about pleasure.
People have sex for dozens of different reasons, here are the most common ones besides having kids:
- out of habit
- out of obligation
- out of curiosity
- to show loyalty
- revenge
- out of protest
- out of boredom
- to feel connected to the world
- as a sublimation of contact with reality
- out of compulsion
- so as not to offend
- it would take a long time to explain why not
- out of pity
- because it’s cool
- for self-gratification
- because it’s paid for
- to relieve stress
- as a cure for stress
- the doctor ordered
and a bunch of other reasons that have nothing to do with pleasure.
A word to Captain Obvious:
You can only truly enjoy sex if your true intention is to enjoy it.
And that would be the end of it 😅
💔 Passion in couples disappears precisely because the true goals are forced to be replaced by habit, everyday life, layering of resentments and misunderstandings.
There is simply no space left for love and deep contact. And this is often not your fault.
⏰ When you’re a woman with three small children, sex for you turns into a 30 minute slot in your schedule.
🧰 And if you’re a passionate man in the dawn of his youth, you’re 25/8 building a happy future for yourself and your family.
🎓 And no one taught you how to spend quality time with your beloved and invest in the relationship either.
🚫 Multiply that by a blocked unconducted body that feels nothing due to chronic stress and being in your mind 100% of the time.