From Numbness to Aliveness
When Sarah* First Came
Sarah felt completely numb after a devastating breakup that ended a 7-year relationship. "I feel like I'm living in gray," she said. "Everything feels flat, meaningless. I can't even cry anymore."
She was functioning at work but felt disconnected from friends, family, and any sense of joy. Sleep was either too much or too little. She described feeling like "a ghost of myself."
Our Work Together
We started gently with metaphorical cards. Sarah's first card was a desert landscape - "Empty, but maybe... spacious?" she wondered. This became our starting point: what if the emptiness wasn't wrong, but a clearing for something new?
Through somatic work, we discovered her body was holding enormous tension - jaw clenched, shoulders raised, breath shallow. We learned to listen to what her body needed: sometimes rest, sometimes movement, sometimes just acknowledgment of the grief.
The turning point came in month 4 when she drew a seed card. "Maybe I'm not dead," she said quietly. "Maybe I'm just planted and haven't sprouted yet."
Where She Is Now
Sarah describes feeling "alive again" - not the same as before, but in a deeper way. She's discovered interests she never had time for during the relationship, reconnected with friends, and even started dating when she felt ready.
"I thought healing meant going back to who I was before," she reflects. "But I actually became someone I like better."